That other friend

Can you relate to the moment when you make plans with a friend but they cancel it at last moment because they got a sudden call to hang out with their “best friend?” You’re precious to them, you sure as hell are their “always ready to hang out” kinda buddy but you are just not their best friend you are their other friend. Next to the best friend, let me explain in a more geeky way.Suppose you are x and your friend is y and their best friend is z. Now x and y made a plan to have fun when suddenly z called y and asked to stay in because they are coming and now y makes an excuse to get x off the hook for the day cuz to y, z is more important than x.Phew, suddenly my geeky side leashed out. Well I hope that you have got my point. But, the worst thing is that when y is free and bored, y would just call x and x never refuses.So to have a little moment of truth, here are some reasons that your friendship is falling apart and it’s time for you to let them go and grow up :-·       When they cancel plans with you for more than 2 times just because they want to hang out with their other friends.
·       When something exciting is going on with their life and you get to know about that thing through their snapchat stories and Instagram because best friends have a rule like you used to tell me that stuff all the time and now you just put it on your story to let me know.
·       When your call log has no entry from them for more than 2 months. I know I know who calls nowadays? But, good friends do to complain about how their life is a mess or how their dog ate their dinner and sill stuff.
·       You test them once about whether they miss you or not, just don’t text or call them for like a month and if they don’t text you even a single time, I think it’s time to burst the little bubble.
·       When they hang out with some common friends but don’t invite you, you know your company is getting a little boring for them.
With this I would say, maybe you need to work on some skills like me and get out in the world again. Explore new things, put yourself out there and try to be yourself and fun cuz you know you are fun.